Ideas for best romantic dates (for true romantics)

Freinds with benfits, why it sucks or just is misrepensted, and why im about to have a freinds with benfits...who has me conflicted, because hes really cool and his name is david and hes one of the coolest pepole ive known,

 Freinds with benefits and situationships

or abertavated to FWB 

a thing I didn't even really know existed untill last year

a thing I have deeply confilcuited largely netive feelings about fwb

Just as much as I hate and am against the idea of a suitatship, not all pepole who get into them, just the increasingly trendy and popular idea of them. 

I am going to be very frank with my opnions 

you should think of this blog as an austic, gen z, queer verion of sex in teh city (carrie bradshaws collom that is)

So I think fwb is bad confusing and can for romantics is often cruel unfiffiling and has risk of ypu catching feelings witch the other person already set tge tone their not looking for a realitionship despite already treating you like ur dating 

If u want sex with no strings attached and to be friends wiry that person to boot

If ur already friends but decided to hook up but not start dating somehow and not make your longtime friendship weird or romantic 

As seen in the movie friends with benefits starring Mila coonas and Justin Timberlake

About A man and a woman 

What is a friends with

My Types: (types what are they are they good or bad for dating sucess,

Dating advice 1#

INTRO Types

Alot of pepole tell me my expeactaions for dating are too high, to unrealstic and tied up in spiiffic types of pepole that so spififc, they ahve been dubbed unreastic (despite teh fact throught my life I have met many of the Personity types that make up my type list and its now expaning as I get older)

 So not everyone has a type but alot of pepole do weather they like to admit it or not

My Types in men:

(for roamnce, dating and love)

1. Fun loving hippie

2. Silly movie nerd (chubby, lots of enegery, dorky and geeky knows alot about cool stuff I dont know abot already as well as stuff that I do, that we can geek out ovr together) flirty, unshamed, impusive and dosent really overthink, open and honnest --maeks offestive dirty jokes, has strong opnions loves going to the movue theatre --catgaoging movies on letterboxes, artstsiclly brainstorming on new stories.

3. really snestive thoughful pretty boy, with alot of really sweet things to say, make eachother laugh, loving and sweet guy, whos not the most intresting or smart but is funny as hell and is just like a fluffy adorable little guyyyy really tallnted, down to earth makes you feel calm and loved just by theri presence, 

3. DADNy cultured /stylish gay: Very attarctive openly gay, flaboyant (DANDY, stylish, witty, pateint moral, thoughful, cultured gay)

4. Kinda sorta bad boy creative who funds me/is ipunsive but also senstive to my limits always getting drunk doing some crazy wild stuff. into bdsm and motercyles proetcs me and stands up for me always.

5. Goofy Bad Boy

6. rich smatrt school boy who sees me as existing and his inetelctual euqual: 

7. Deep emotinally inetnse boybrooding in a balck coat with issues we bond over, who loves stronger then anyone else:

                                                

True roamtics offcial webites: being single suuuuuuuuuucks for roamtics!!! This site inst for the "bold geotyscial indpeendent "bad bitches who dont need no man" this website is for roamntics through and through,

TRUE ROMANTICS

Offical manfesto and table of contents

A site for true roamntics like me

to Vent about roamtic struggles, my exes and being in the roamtic sceene

resorses for single pepole exeprincing poverty, extreem lonlyniss heartbreak and rejection -hotlines, best dating apps ive tested, best places to meet lovers -dpending on who you are trying to meet. Ways to date and make freinds easier, 

Never fear, True love is not dead, dispite what everyone says. You desrve the fanstay, the realstic unreastic true love you have always yurnned for with every cornner of your tender soul. You desreve romance not just sex, not just commitmentless, painfully empty FWB, situatiships, "queer platonic realstships" Devoid of the deep love, joy, loyalty, trashionshal romance you read fanfiction for becuase you are agaonizgly lacking your other half (or halfs) in real life. Evryone wants roamnce (expect aromantics if your aro but the core of romance, that close connection you may get somthing out of this site to fill that niche reagrdless.) Truth is, the wrold has never been more lonley, lost, unfun, uncultured, untrested in themselevs or human beings, the wrold has forgotten how to love. Well if your desprate -getting told by your not single freinds "just wait for it to happen naturallY" if you read pride and pregeuice, and cant stand dating apps souless michchancale inpersonal routine and dont have the pataince to gamble with profiles for months before you meet anyone with a little bit of poeteional, Do you hate the lack of roamnce in modern dating culture the sad gendered divide how men have forgtten to let theri egos go and be roamtic, and senstive to their parnters emotions, get their lovers flowers, take her on fun dates get her thoughtful gifts, and tell her you can be safe with her have empthay for female struggles you dont exerpince but are aware your gf wants somone to love to be a solice from the masgsgony, and pain in the wolrd, instead of men being aloof, cheating overwelming anti abortion repeublcain cult memebers, who hate wemon to much to love them, let alone love them well. Are you tired of gay dating and queer dating being made so devoid of joy, cruel, expesive, empty all about sex and, all about avoiding loyaty, commitment this is true if your polyamrous, pansexual, or straight and mangomous, we all want connection and when the catgories are blurred too far as they ahve been, between freinds, lovers, and fuckbudy's somehwerre inebwteen yet somehow expecting two freinds sleeping together to NEVER fall in love, its a recicpuie for heartbreak and prying open the alrady gaping hold in all of our brokenhearts. If you want the fannssy of love that can exisst if you just find the right pepole ---dont let the current econmic system, lack of thrid spaces ecomic pressues to marry young or older rich 

TrueLoveromantic.com 

Inro Manfesto:

pepole preomoting unheathy dating dynamtics. If you love love, shamlessly despite evryone now for some reason somehow, making you feel dsprate, needy, anoying, childish and unreaslstic for wanting,, seeking passionitley, and persisntaly looking for love in our empty modern dating scene, this is a sight to vent about anything dating realted, I will post dating and romance advice on my blog, a site for real pepole to post past toxic or absuive relashstips (wutch we can all learn from)as a wisper/vent network to complain about your exes or anyone of the sort, moderated lighty we want pepole to be able to vent freely aboit theri romantic troubles no massgony or bigtroy allowed but other then that dont censor youself get your true emotions out --also warnings if you dated somone dangrous this a free messsgae board to warn other users, types and more. Love is real if you cant find it yet you can at least express your feelings geek out, as well as the matchmaker service ---to enegrouge wingmanning (freinds setting you up with their freinds) dating prefrences, fictional chrachyters and celbrity archive blog updating frquently

Vent about your trouble with roamnce no matter how petty (you let things go to much, you keep your feelings inside too much) Be cruel to shitty guys who f with you tear into them, this ist the forum for grace you cna process things but dont give shitty guys a pass. 

your shamlessly unreasltic and kind of crazy fansnstues of love, raomnce, both real life and fanatsies of time travel hopes and dreams

Things (I hope to put on the site) on the site:

1. Anymous questions about dating: https://tellonym.me/user.16771183

1. Matchmaker (

2. List of dating praicicies ive noticed that I think are deeply emotinally absuive and threaning, cristsim of anti commitment culture.

2. Make dating avice/venting forum: Your first forum

3. List of My types 

3. Romantic fAnATSies (that are very genuine)

3. List of Celbrity crushes (fictinal charchters/histroical figures I think are hot ---would be great on a date)

4. List of cool ideas for frist, secohnd and thrid dates (things that are free formost)

5. Austic angst /lonlniss epidemic for lonley /hopless romantics frustated at their own soical diffculties

6. List of resorses for pepole sturggling with singlenss, lonlyness and are deeply depressed frustated and feel they cant talk to pepole becuase of it

9. Polyamrous vs mangomous dating struggles /advice, rules,from my exeprince obersvations as I get more into the poly scene 

10. How to be a roamntic and not an incel the delicate dance of dealing with almost constant rejection 

8. Great ideas for romantic gifts (full list)

9. old fashioned roamntic 

10. Things to get in ur feels, romantic playlists, how to make somone a romantic mixtape (not just playlist) 

10. Pick up lines/romantic things to say advice for autstics pepole who have trouble

11. How not to get roanticly burnt out

12. Rating dating sites best and worse ---my site is better

13. Old fahsioned dating pratcices that I wish they would bring back

14. How to tell the diffrence between forced attachemnt, unheathy limmrence, and true raomtic chemistry/ememrging feelings

12. The 26 questions and other tips to get closer to somone/let theri guard down. 

12. Bueatful roamtic poems that can apply to many diffrent pepole masterdoc 

13. many pepole ive dated in the recent past --all my exes (keep track of anyone I date or dumps me in the future ) rating my exes based on hotness,